now suppose

Even though I am not a huge fan of Bush. This story needs to be told. Bush's consultant simply suggest Bush, doesn't matter how busy he is in a day, he needs to spend solid ten minutes talking to the first lady, his wife.

Ten minutes seem so short, yet, we can sometimes not talking to a good friend for days. Average 10 min a day, it's fairly good effort. That is like calling you every single day, and each phone call is like 10 minutes long.

now imagine if it's average 60 min a day, it'll must be really good friend, as it is like calling you every single day, and each phone call is like 60 minutes long. and how many friends you had would spend an hour on you, every single day? sometimes, bf only see the gf two times a week.

now we suppose we have A B & J. God, that sounds gay, but anyway. A met B and J in the end of spring. A likes J since. B contacted A after discovered they share similar interest. A and B keep in touch, they spent an hour, everyday in communicating with each other. and occasionally, A sees B for seven hours and a half. Five weeks later since A met B and J, J is going out with A. NOW, should A continue to spend an hour communicating with B everyday? should A tell J about the time that is spent on B? Should B contact J? Should A still seeing B in person, 121? Can A imagine J spending an hour on someone other than Aself, everyday?

The story is basically morphed from Geogre W Bush's life to A B & J's. The amazing part is, the DIFFICULTY (for some) to realise the level of attention that A and B are giving to each other that are actually far above the 'norm'. What will J feel about it? What will J do about it? and probably more importantly, what will A and B do about it? Here is a multiple choice-ish prediction:

A - it's normal. nothing need to change.
B - it's not normal, but no need to change as changes would occur natrually by itself. (you don't need to find the grail, the grail finds you)
J - doesn't know yet.

Fixed yvett's hi-fi, enjoyed the pure chant at the moment, good enough to carry me to sleep at 1:12AM